I totally get it with the husbands that are not fans of getting their photos taken. One thing that I hear a lot from husbands is that "it wasn't bad...I thought it would be longer" when having a family session. Even the family portion of a newborn session isn't very long as I try to make it as painless as possible, while capturing the emotion of the session.

Now, about losing weight. Love yourself the way you are. Not one person out there is perfect, and that's ok. This is your life and your family, be in the pictures.